Together, lets make parenting easier!

Look, it’s true, parenting is the toughest job there is - and the most important. 

The benefits of how we parent our children will be felt for generations to come, but it can feel so hard to get ‘right’, can’t it?  They don’t come with a manual, and our relationships with our kids can be the biggest triggers of our own wounds.

The thing is there is one powerful way to make everything easier in parenting, and my unique 4 step process is designed to implement these changes, in natural ways.

Together we will:

• Identify the root of the challenges arising  in your home and name your parenting goals.
  

• Clear out the old ways of being that feed challenging behaviours, in us and our children.
  

• Align your parenting strategy, daily behaviours and moment to moment choices with your  long term goals.
  

• Lay down new neural pathways so these behaviours and choices  become natural and easy, ensuring long term success. Your  vision for your family can then become your current reality.

Maybe your child is proving difficult to raise, and you do not know how to change their behaviour… you feel like you have tried everything!!

Maybe you are feeling exhausted and reactive, and no matter how many times you vow not to scream and yell, you can’t seem to help it.

Or maybe your child is showing signs of anxiety or struggling with their peers and it is breaking your heart. They lack resilience and you have no idea why o what to do.

I hear you… and I am so glad you are here.

You are not alone. I have worked with dozens of families with struggles they thought would never be solved… and 8 weeks later they have happy, thriving kids

It all begins with connection… and a little bit of a perspective shift.

Here are the truths of the matter:

Our children, until the teenage years, need our nervous system to ‘co-regulate’ with if they are to calm down. Our nervous system impacts their’s in non-verbal ways: if we are disregulated, so are they.

When our children are melting down, being naughty or disrespectful they are in fact disregulated, ‘having a hard time’ rather than purposely ‘giving us a hard time’. By helping them come back to a regulated state, we change the behaviour.

When we meet them in anger, frustration or dismiss them, we further impact the behaviour by causing more disregulation through fear, confusion or shame.

What’s more our relationship with our child provides the blueprint for all relationships they go on to create for the rest of their lives.

By the age of 7, your child will form engrained beliefs, stored in their subconscious mind, about who they are, how to ‘belong’ with / be accepted by those around them and how the world works.

97% of all thoughts and beliefs are stored and recalled from the subconscious mind, driving your child’s actions, behaviours and choices.

We know, as adults, that our actions, behaviours and choices create our day to day outcomes, in our finances, careers, relationships as well as our personal health and wellbeing.

So… what WE put in, THEY get out.

But there is no need to panic or cast blame! NOTHING is unchangeable!

Why this programme is life changing, for them and us:

The good news is we now have the knowledge and tools to use this information for our own, as well as our children’s, benefit! In short, we can take our power back from the past and positively impact our children’s future.

Thanks to our new understanding of neuroplasticity we are empowered with the ability to change beliefs and behaviours. Accompany that with practices that calm the nervous system, increase our capacity to hold more stress and process our ‘triggers’, and we put ourselves back in the driving seat of our own lives, transforming the quality of our health, wealth and relationships in tangible ways.

By changing our own subconscious programming and improving our agency over our reactions, we also change the trajectory of the lives of our children, impacting their behaviours, choices and actions long term.

The Actualise Process

This 8 week process brings change and long lasting results from the inside out, resourcing you to find:

• A greater understanding of your child’s behaviour and how to ‘fix’ it

• Agency over your own reactions and responses

• More calm and flow in your day to day, eliminating overwhelm

• An increase in fun and connection between you and your child

In your child you will witness:

• More regulation and calm

• Increased resilience and confidence

• Better communication and connection with you

• Improved relationships with peers

• Better results and concentration at school

Over 8 weeks I will call upon the four stages of discovery:

Identify - an inventory of the challenges and finding the root cause.

Clearing

Alignment

Neural reprogramming

Each weekly 1.5 hour session will take place via zoom with me personally, and will lead you through both verbal and experiential processes that will fundamentally change the dynamics in your home.

1:1 voice messaging via whatsapp will support you in real time along the way.

Audios, videos and workbooks are provided to deepen the experience.